How to Deal with People Who Put You Down It's not a good feeling when someone insults（侮辱）you.
英语试题 05-09
根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。
How to Deal with People Who Put You Down
It's not a good feeling when someone insults（侮辱）you. 16. You just have to learn to take care of yourself and know how to deal with it when it happens.
1.Avoid reacting immediately.
When someone puts you down，deal with it by not immediately reacting to him. Getting angry will strengthen his behavior. 17. Also，it's not good for you to act out the anger or other negative emotions. You could do or say something you will regret，or you could damage yourself with stress.
2.Understand why the person does it.
18. It is not always on purpose and may not always be meant to hurt you. Understanding what the person's motive is can help you determine how to deal with him. Sometimes people aren't really trying to be mean or hurt your feelings. They may just consider it harmless.
3.19.
The person's words are a reflection of himself，not of you. If he were a happy person，he would not spend so much time putting down other people around him. Also，he most likely does this to other people and not just you. If you let his put-downs get to you，then he wins. Don't allow what he said to make you feel bad about yourself.
4.Ask for support.
You should tell someone and ask for help if the person is putting you down all the time. Tell someone who is an authority figure like a teacher，parent，or supervisor if the person does this to you. 20. They can stand up for you when it's happening or even report what is going on.
A. Don't take it to heart.
B. Hang out with positive people.
C. Using your support systems helps in many ways.
D. These people can surely put you down every time.
E.It gives him what he wants — a response from you.
F.It can also hurt your feelings when someone puts you down.
G.People that put others down may do it for several reasons.
【文章大意】本文是一篇说明文，就如何对待那些奚落你的人提出了四条建议。
16.F 根据上文中的“It’s not a good feeling”和下文中的“learn to take care of yourself”并结合选项F项It can hurt your feelings when someone puts you down.（当有人贬低你的时候，这会伤害你的感情。）可知，F项符合语境。且F项中的puts you down与本文标题相呼应。
17.E 根据上下文可知，本空主要解释了你生气会加强其行为的原因，结合选项可知，E项符合语境。E项中的指代上文中的Getting angry。
18.G 本部分是讲要理解这些人为什么这么做，选项G“奚落别人的那些人或许出于一些原因才这么做”切合本部分主题，且与下文联系紧密，衔接自然，故答案为G项。
19.A 分析文章结构可知，本空为小标题，根据段落首句The person’s words are a reflection of himself, not of you.“这个人的话是他自己的反映，而不是你。”本段主要讲不要把那些话放在心上，故答案为A项。
20.C 本部分是讲寻求帮助，选项C中关键词support与本段主旨相符合，故答案为C项。
How to Deal with People Who Put You Down
It's not a good feeling when someone insults（侮辱）you. 16. You just have to learn to take care of yourself and know how to deal with it when it happens.
1.Avoid reacting immediately.
When someone puts you down，deal with it by not immediately reacting to him. Getting angry will strengthen his behavior. 17. Also，it's not good for you to act out the anger or other negative emotions. You could do or say something you will regret，or you could damage yourself with stress.
2.Understand why the person does it.
18. It is not always on purpose and may not always be meant to hurt you. Understanding what the person's motive is can help you determine how to deal with him. Sometimes people aren't really trying to be mean or hurt your feelings. They may just consider it harmless.
3.19.
The person's words are a reflection of himself，not of you. If he were a happy person，he would not spend so much time putting down other people around him. Also，he most likely does this to other people and not just you. If you let his put-downs get to you，then he wins. Don't allow what he said to make you feel bad about yourself.
4.Ask for support.
You should tell someone and ask for help if the person is putting you down all the time. Tell someone who is an authority figure like a teacher，parent，or supervisor if the person does this to you. 20. They can stand up for you when it's happening or even report what is going on.
A. Don't take it to heart.
B. Hang out with positive people.
C. Using your support systems helps in many ways.
D. These people can surely put you down every time.
E.It gives him what he wants — a response from you.
F.It can also hurt your feelings when someone puts you down.
G.People that put others down may do it for several reasons.
【文章大意】本文是一篇说明文，就如何对待那些奚落你的人提出了四条建议。
16.F 根据上文中的“It’s not a good feeling”和下文中的“learn to take care of yourself”并结合选项F项It can hurt your feelings when someone puts you down.（当有人贬低你的时候，这会伤害你的感情。）可知，F项符合语境。且F项中的puts you down与本文标题相呼应。
17.E 根据上下文可知，本空主要解释了你生气会加强其行为的原因，结合选项可知，E项符合语境。E项中的指代上文中的Getting angry。
18.G 本部分是讲要理解这些人为什么这么做，选项G“奚落别人的那些人或许出于一些原因才这么做”切合本部分主题，且与下文联系紧密，衔接自然，故答案为G项。
19.A 分析文章结构可知，本空为小标题，根据段落首句The person’s words are a reflection of himself, not of you.“这个人的话是他自己的反映，而不是你。”本段主要讲不要把那些话放在心上，故答案为A项。
20.C 本部分是讲寻求帮助，选项C中关键词support与本段主旨相符合，故答案为C项。
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