根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。 Coming face-to-face with your inadequacies can be painful,
英语试题 03-08
根据短文内容，从短文后的选项中选出能填入空白处的最佳选项。选项中有两项为多余选项。
Coming face-to-face with your inadequacies can be painful, to say the least. It challenges the way that you believe people see you and even makes you question yourself.___16___. But handling negative feedback properly will not only make you look well-behaved, but it could eventually help you grow as a person. Here’s how to do it.
※Be objective about criticism
Before you jump to conclusions and begin to challenge the other person’s opinion, take a step back and look at it as a whole.___17___, don’t immediately allow your emotions to get the better of you, but rather, take a moment to consider whether the criticism is at all accurate.___18___.
※Be open to the idea of change
___19___. And it may be because of a concept called “cognitive dissonance” that can prevent us from changing even when that’s what we need most. “People have a view of themselves or the world that they only seek to confirm, not adjust or change,” Dr. Benn, a psychologist explains. “They may ignore criticism because they wish to avoid having to change, or because it makes them feel bad, or because they feel it is not helpful.”
※Ask questions
If you’re open to using the criticism as a springboard to improvement, you will likely need more information. The initial moment you hear the criticism may not be the best time to ask for more details. Your emotions will be riding high, and you may not be particularly willing to accept extra information. However, when you feel ready, it could be worth revisiting the subject with the person who criticized you. “___20___, asking what you can do differently or how you can do better,” says Dr. Benn. Even if you don’t agree with their advice, thank them and promise to consider it.
A. When you can’t hear clearly
B. Most of us are pretty stubborn
C. Next time you get a bad review
D. Engage with the person who criticized you
E. But it’s best to avoid getting into an argument
F. Your immediate reaction may be to defend yourself
G. Give yourself a chance to really take in the information and evaluate it
【答案】
Coming face-to-face with your inadequacies can be painful, to say the least. It challenges the way that you believe people see you and even makes you question yourself.___16___. But handling negative feedback properly will not only make you look well-behaved, but it could eventually help you grow as a person. Here’s how to do it.
※Be objective about criticism
Before you jump to conclusions and begin to challenge the other person’s opinion, take a step back and look at it as a whole.___17___, don’t immediately allow your emotions to get the better of you, but rather, take a moment to consider whether the criticism is at all accurate.___18___.
※Be open to the idea of change
___19___. And it may be because of a concept called “cognitive dissonance” that can prevent us from changing even when that’s what we need most. “People have a view of themselves or the world that they only seek to confirm, not adjust or change,” Dr. Benn, a psychologist explains. “They may ignore criticism because they wish to avoid having to change, or because it makes them feel bad, or because they feel it is not helpful.”
※Ask questions
If you’re open to using the criticism as a springboard to improvement, you will likely need more information. The initial moment you hear the criticism may not be the best time to ask for more details. Your emotions will be riding high, and you may not be particularly willing to accept extra information. However, when you feel ready, it could be worth revisiting the subject with the person who criticized you. “___20___, asking what you can do differently or how you can do better,” says Dr. Benn. Even if you don’t agree with their advice, thank them and promise to consider it.
A. When you can’t hear clearly
B. Most of us are pretty stubborn
C. Next time you get a bad review
D. Engage with the person who criticized you
E. But it’s best to avoid getting into an argument
F. Your immediate reaction may be to defend yourself
G. Give yourself a chance to really take in the information and evaluate it
【答案】
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